Dating is about meeting new people and making a connection. Flirting is the key to this process. We all have to know how to flirt. Some lucky people are natural flirts, their flirtations come off smooth and effortless. The rest of us must work a bit harder at flirting. How does one get better at flirting??? well, by flirting even more of course.
Smiling is a universal flirting technique. A flirty smile and great eye contact can say a million things to someone without you speaking a word. Always start with a great smile when you want to catch the other persons attention. Flashing a sexy smile says that you are friendly and approachable.
Once the initial introductions have happened, give a compliment. This is your opening line so be careful no to come off too strong. It's best to say something subtle like "I really like your smile" or "I just had to come over and say hello" NOT "you look amazing in that low cut shirt!!!".
Keep the conversation simple and friendly. Humor can help ease the tension during these moments. To laugh together is an instant connection. It shows people that you are fun and easy going when you can laugh at a situation that can otherwise be awkward.
Final step is to actually be interested. Where ever the conversation may lead, pay attention to key points... like her name! You have made it this far, don't mess up now. Look into her eyes as she is speaking NOT anywhere else.
Yes, flirting can be risky. It's either hit or miss. If you are nervous, it's a good sign, this means you really like this person. Take the risk. It's better to overcome the initial fear than to always wonder what could have been. Take chances when you are single. These small risks become life's lessons. We need to learn and grow from our experiences and pass them along to others. Now go flirt with someone asap!
Happy dating and thanks for following Marisa's Misadventures*
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