Lazy In Love

Have you ever found yourself lazy in love... in the bedroom? Of course the sex is great in the beginning of any relationship. That's when you're trying to be that sexy goddess that you know is in there somewhere. You wear the sexy lingerie, smell great and even attempt a couple of gymnastic worthy flips and bends. It's all great fun but how long does it last before you get a little too comfortable?

The reality is that sometimes women let themselves get lazy in the bedroom and the relationship. Men get lazy too, of course, but today we are focusing on the women. Ladies lets take a moment to discuss this serious matter. Your boyfriend won't appreciate you playing pretend in the beginning, then changing completely as if to say “surprise this is the real me!”.

Lets go over some common lazy things that women do after a few months of dating.

Some women stop:

Shaving Their Legs: Ladies, men do not want to find out that your legs are hairier than their own. Nothing is worse than searching under the covers for your woman's sexy legs and finding some prickly stumps.

Wearing Sexy Lingerie: No one is expecting you to wear the uncomfortable corset that you need a friend to help you get into, or the thong that disappears  into your butt and you can't find for days. However,  do not go from wearing sexy panties to wearing his basketball shorts. At least wear some of your own undies to the bedroom.

Staying Fit: If you are in great shape and eating healthy when he meets you, do not all of a sudden start only ordering cheeseburgers and fried chicken on every dinner date. Keep taking good care of yourself. Do this for you not for him, just in case he doesn't stick around long because you keep wearing his basketball shorts to bed. Staying healthy keeps you strong and full of energy, perfect for the bedroom.

If you took the time, and put in the effort to find him now it's time to put in just as much work to keep him. It's not actually work if you love and care about him and yourself. Love has it's ups and downs already, so don't add any extra bad habits to the mix. Letting your guard down in the bedroom and relationship is not okay. Nothing is sexier than a woman who takes great care of herself.

Be sexy not lazy and thanks for following Marisa's Misadventures*